Want to Be Dating a 10? Read This

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First let’s define her.

I hate calling pretty girls, 10's. It’s self defeating. But for this article I need to.

Most of us define a 10 as a beautiful girl we can’t land. She’s too tall, too young or maybe too popular. Or all of the above. Many define them as models, dancers, club girls or strippers. I mean models, really.

I’m so bored hearing about some chick telling me she is a model. This means someone has taken her picture, big deal. That’s like me saying I got a dick.

So many guys get hung up on these chicks that spend three hours on make up and hair. They see the six inch heels and they get all wound up.

Then when they get the girl home and see her in the morning five feet tall with a zit on her forehead they freak. Add to this that the average guy will have zilch in common with these women and you ask, "why do I want this type of girl?"

I digress, sorry

Call me stupid, but I will take the tall, career blond girl with a brain at the mall in a sexy outfit any day. This is my 10.

"Tens" can have a guy anytime they want. I mean sex, of course. When you have that option through out your life, it becomes mundane.

Think lobster. I love lobster. I love it because I rarely get it. Feed me this tasty crustacean everyday and blah...I don’t like it or need it as often. Hot chicks react the same way.

If (and when) a ten rejects you, it’s because of her choice, not you personally (unless you are a total idiot) She doesn’t need you right now. She doesn’t need sex.

Dating a 10, So how do we play it?

Defining a girl as a "10" creates a negative barrier. The problem with this mentality is the beautiful girl becomes unattainable by default. In other words, you’ve convinced yourself that she is out of your league. How can you game her if you yourself don’t believe she is within your grasp...you can’t.

Dating a 10 Step #1, She’s just another girl, not a "10"

Wanna know the biggest difference between picking up a hot girl over an average girl? And who said there is a difference?

Trying not to get nervous with the hot one.

Yes, the enemy is you. Changing this attitude is the first step to landing a "10". Treat her like she is any other girl and watch your success rate improve. If you can’t get around this than you will fail.

Your mouth will dry up, your words will be all mumbled... weird shit will happen like you’re some dork ass dweeb I find some of the nicest women I meet are the extremely hot ones.

It’s the girls that moo that are angry at the world because they are so ugly!

Dating a 10 Step #2, What do you got?

She gets approached all the time. What do you offer her that’s different from the last twenty guys that hit on her? How are you different, special or unique?

This applies to any girl (and this 10 is just another girl remember?). I’m talking sense of humor and game, not money or the ability to pound alcohol. Find your groove. By being unique you may have the qualities that arouses her interest.

Dating a 10 Step #3, Timing

Timing is key. Most men think that the "10" getting picked up is all about a pro of a guy doing it. Yes to a certain degree but No!

The "10" decides that it’s time. Tonight she wants sex but will you be there? Not if you aren’t hitting on "tens" all the time. Remember, I believe that it isn’t the guy that directly gets into her pants. Much of this rides on her attitude for the evening.

She decides that she wants sex that night, or a relationship. The guy that arrives at the proper time and with the unique characteristics, gets her. Lucky you say? Damn straight. But if you are hitting on "10's" all the time your number will come up.

Dating a 10 Step #4, My favorite tactic, the wild card

This applies best to a "10" that you have access to. Maybe a chick at work or a bartender that you can go visit at any time. Make it clear that you want to be a friends. Don’t get aggressive, no touching...none of that.

For instance, on the plane back from Miami I had an incredibly hot girl sit next to me. Now I was extremely hung over and not in the best condition to land a girl. But being a player, I couldn’t pass up the opportunity.

She told me that who ever she meets always wants to fuck her yadda yadda.. I made it clear that I had enough girls in my own life and that I would enjoy hanging out with her as friend.

She liked that idea. Pressure was off. She was excited to have a new guy friend that she could talk to. She didn’t know any guy like that. I even told her (Angie) that I had cool guy friends that she could meet.

Now, I know what your thinking. The friend that never gets laid. No, I’m not going to be a platonic friend, no way. Just in the short term.

I’m the wild card in her life that she will soon be thinking "why aren’t I with this guy?". I’m just going to time this right and let her come to me.

She knows I have girls I date. This attracts her subconsciously. She also is attracted by the fact that I’m not trying to get immediately into her pants like every other guy. Now, granted, this tactic could take some time.

But hey, she’s a "10".

Now it’s important to make sure that she is attracted to you sexually. Most girls will be after they get comfortable with you and you remain on your solid game.

One of the greatest keys to seduction is a woman being emotionally comfortable with a man.

The first time you get together is key. Be careful, this is the time she is most likely to flake (blow you off) Remember, she thinks you’re special, don’t screw it up by going after her.

Patience grasshopper.

Get two tickets to something she enjoys. Tell her your friend couldn’t make it (insert bullshit excuse here) and ask her. You’re communicating to her that she is your second choice to go, just as a friend might.

Remember, she is not used to being second in anything and this stirs emotion in her towards you.

In my case on the plane, I had three hours to find out all about Angie’s interests. A complete first date if you will.

Once you are out with her, let the magic begin. Be everything she wants in a guy and let her come to you! This could take several get togethers, but it will work.

Again, the key is to be a friend, DO NOT PURSUE HER. Listen to what she says about her relationships. Make sure you tell her about your dates too.

Dating a 10 Step #5, Double date

Double date if you can. See if she flirts in any way. This is a great tactic to land your ten. She is quickly reminded that you are no slouch in the dating world.

She will see you as a viable candidate, especially if you are with a hot chick. You will also learn so much about her when you see how she reacts with a guy she dates.

Double dating makes her #2 in her night. She’s used to being #1. This can stir jealousy that will reward you in spades if you take your time. Sooner or later her date will screw up and you will be #1 in her life!

Dating a 10 Conclusion

Remember these five tips.

• Don't define her as a ten.
• Bring a unique game.
• Hit on 10's often because timing is key.
• Try my wild card method
• Double date

I was in Angie's pants on date three.

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Vegas Baby!

Michael

Good stuff to know. My buddies and i are headed to the HardRock. Can you teach me craps?

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